We all have people that we at some point in life had to part from and it’s either been hard or it’s been really easy to do so. Lately, due to a lot of issues I have to deal with, I’ve been thinking a lot of mine. There are a few out there who have done a significant amount of damage to my personal life but I choose not to blame them nor myself. It all happened for a reason and here I am smarter than ever. Though occasionally, like now, I like to think of them. I wonder how they are doing and how much of their dreams they’ve achieved. Perhaps it is silly but I always wish for them to be happy. Unlike them, I have no time, energy or space to curse.
Only until recently have I realized that all of them have been obstacles for me. Obstacles that have been preparing me for the next one. And I can’t help but think of how difficult and important it is for save points (think early Final Fantasy) before a critical event in the game. Frankly, I can’t see it yet. I can’t see why I had to go through all of that crap except that it made me stronger and turned me into the person I am today cause I really don’t think I deserved all of it. Anyhow, if I ever catch any one of my precious friends be among those jerks, I’ll hand out a warning and then let you do whatever pleases you. After all, one has got to know what it is like to be burnt to learn.
//from wise-ass Cae, live in Malmö